There are times you need to stop caring about few things in life. There are times when you have to rethink, and start moving. Every day is a new day, and you got to live it fully.
Stop caring about…
…everyone’s opinion of you.
Everyone’s opinion about you doesn’t matter, and should not be cared about. People will always have something negative to say about you. It would do nothing, but steer you away from your goals and ideas.
…being politically correct.
It is good to have opinion and say it. There will be 100s of times when your opinion won’t match with the people around you. Doesn’t matter! Hold your opinion of you have a strong belief in it. Speak the truth!
…looking a certain way.
You are unique and have all the right in the world to look the way you want to. Dress the way you want to. Wear things are comfortable wearing, go with styles you are comfortable with. Live it fully, your own way!
…the boundaries others set up.
If you believe in something, go for it. People will be there to make you believe that whatever you are trying to do is next to impossible. Give it a shot! A shot given is better than a shot untaken! Do not let other people set boundaries for you!
…what everyone else has.
Never compare. You are unique and so is everybody. Everyone has a different life, lifestyle, resources, skills, strengths, weakness, etc. Comparing yourself to others will only demotivate you. Instead, appreciate where you are and what you have right now.
…imaginary state of perfect.
No one in this world is perfect. There is nothing like perfectionism that exists. Striving for that imaginary state of perfect will only discourage you and load you with stress.
…being right all the time.
You cannot be right always! What matters more is what is right for you and what is right in your opinion. You don’t have to be right or win an argument. Do things the way you want to! Keep your mind open to new opinions and ideas.
…mistakes.
Mistakes are part and parcel of life. Mistakes teach important lessons. In fact, the biggest mistake you can do is doing nothing because you are too scared to make a mistake. Mistakes make you stronger and teach you.
…things you can’t control.
No point worrying about the things that are not in your control. Keep your mind calm and accept this fact of life. Instead, adjust your attitude to such things.
…what everyone else wants for you.
People around you, even the ones who are closer to you and care for you, will want you to do different things, without caring what your passions, dreams, and goals mean to you. Go for what you want to go.
Stop caring about the above things and you’ll feel a new liveliness in your life. You’ll be a person with clearer state of mind!
